"Is that what you want to do? You want to bounce on his bones a few times, feel the rush of pleasure & accomplishment and perhaps receive accolades for creative maneuvers well done?"
"That's cruel! I just want to spend some time with him, to get to know him, be there for him, and see that he's happy... Sex isn't everything."
"Oh. OK. So the facts are that: he's also 10 years older than you, from another country & culture, wealthy, speaks a language you don't understand & don't want to learn, is somewhat high profile & is mobbed on a regular basis by adoring fans, and those things don't faze you a bit?
"No."
"What about being a stellar role model and/or stepmom?"
"What?"
"He's got kids. You'll be spending a considerable amount of time with them, as well."
*silence*
*silence*


Folks who have kids without the presence of partners seem to have a wide range of additional relationship challenges. 
*sigh* Best of luck & love to you.